Welcome to the I Promise Experience

I Promise is a Biblically based premarital resource designed to prepare dating or engaged couples for marriage.

Each workbook includes access to our online personality assessment, the Connect Assessment® with LOGB®, which helps couples better understand each other's unique personalities, strengths, and communication preferences. The result is a couple better prepared for all God has in store for them in marriage.  

Sessions topics include: Fearfully and Wonderfully Made for Each Other, Covenant Commitment, Roles, Responsibility and Decision Making, Communication, Conflict Resolution, Biblical Finances and Sexuality.

I Promise is best completed with a Facilitator, counselor, pastor, or Mentor Couple, but can be completed as a couple.

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Book Features

Strong, Biblical Emphasis

I Promise encourages seriously dating or engaged couples to view all aspects of their relationship through Biblical lens and establishes a solid foundation for their marriages that will withstand the pressures of today's culture.

Applicable in Multiple Settings


Couples can experience I Promise individually, with a large or small group, or in a more private setting such as with a Pastor, Counselor, or Mentor couple.

Interactive Online Experience


After registering on the I Promise website and creating a personal profile, couples work through a checklist to complete their Relationship Survey and Personality Assessment and then connect to their Fiancé and Facilitator.

Personalized Wedding Vows


Couples are guided to write their promises or vows chapter by chapter, taking the time to understand the true meaning behind each vow. This intentional process helps them prepare for a lifelong marriage, not just the wedding day.

Connect Assessment® with LOGB®

The Connect Assessment® helps the couple better prepare for marriage by gaining more insights about themselves and their Fiancé. The exercises in I Promise help the couple work through the detailed profile report to learn more about successfully communicating and resolving conflict.

Facilitator Support

The I Promise program does not require facilitators to be trained or certified. Instead, facilitators are provided with access to a secure dashboard, where they can easily manage couples' assessments and surveys.

Honest Talk


Honest Talk exercises spark meaningful conversations. Couples explore key questions about their expectations, perspectives, and the chapter's themes, deepening their understanding and strengthening their bond for a lasting marriage.

Frequently Asked Questions


Each individual needs an I Promise workbook to complete the questions and activities in the workbook prior to discussion as a Couple. Each workbook purchase includes access to IPromiseExperience.com to complete the online Relationship Survey and Connect Assessment® and the ability to connect as a couple to the Facilitator.


Yes. There is a separate Facilitator Workbook, which looks similar to the Participant Workbook. Facilitators use the unique code included in their workbook to register at https://IPromiseExperience.com. A Facilitator account provides access to the Couple’s Relationship Survey and Connect Assessment® results, along with guidance, tips, and suggestions for using I Promise in both group settings and one-on-one work with couples. 


Bulk discounts are available at https://store.strongmarriages.com/premarital/ 


We recommend you complete I Promise in 7 sessions, one session dedicated to the Introduction and one session dedicated to each of the 6 chapters of I Promise. We encourage you to spend a session on the Introduction because it helps establish a foundation for understanding the rest of the material moving forward.


Each I Promise chapter has material that needs to be completed individually as well as exercises that should be completed as a Couple. Each chapter includes a section called Honest Talk, that will challenge the Couple to participate in discussing thought provoking questions that will require honest answers. We strongly recommend that at least one hour be set aside for this discussion time.


Each I Promise chapter includes material for individuals to complete on their own, as well as exercises designed for the Couple to complete together. Every chapter also features an Honest Talk section, which invites the Couple to engage in meaningful conversation through thought-provoking questions that encourage openness and honest responses.


Once the Facilitator is registered online at https://IPromiseExperience.com, they will receive access using the Facilitator Code found on the inside cover of the I Promise Facilitator Workbook. The Facilitator shares this code with their Couple. The Couple completes the required checklist and enters the Facilitator’s code to request a connection. After the Facilitator accepts the Couple, the Facilitator gains access to the Couple’s profile, relationship and personality assessment results, and related information within the Couples section.

Facilitators may connect with as many Couples as they wish and can remove Couples once they have completed the I Promise experience together.